This recent Majid Michel’s marriage advice to singles is well loaded and one of its kind!
Popular Ghanaian actor who recently turned an evangelist while still retaining his acting career, Majid Michel has given out an invaluable advice to to singles concerning marriage. Since after his new found faith in God, Actor Majid has made it a point of duty to share very consequential Godly counsels on different areas of life.
His latest is the one on marriage which he shared via his Instagram page. In Majid Michel’s marriage advice, he said it is important for you to build yourself first before thinking of building a marriage. He advised singles never to get married because they feel they need a man or a woman. Rather, they should first of all find God and Christ who is the ultimate “susbstance” man needs in life.
He also pointed out the need for one to discover as well as be in control of him or herself before thinking of getting married. According to him, one should never get married because he wants to be fulfilled or to br loved because whatever you think you will get from getting married is the same thing that will turn out to be your problem in marriage.
Below is Majid Michel’s marriage advice to singles in full:
You should build “YOU” before you ever think about building a marriage. “i will die without you.” “i cannot live without you.” “if you go away, my world will crumble.” who said these are romantic statements? Those statements are not romantic!
They reflect an addictive dependency. instead of being addicted to a substance, you are addicted to a person. “i need a man.” “i need a woman.” No!! you need God!! and you need His holiness. God is saying, “please get your act together as an unmarried person.
Get your standards and values settled”. if you cannot control your emotions, your passions, your feelings, your attitudes, your bad habits or your behavior as you are single now, then you are not prepared for marriage. if you need to get married to be fulfilled or loved, you are not ready for marriage.
The very thing that makes you need to get married will become the problem in your marriage. Men, before you go chasing a woman, make sure she is someone you can chase until death do you part.
Discover yourself first. Know yourself and find yourself through Christ before you start looking for a partner. All your secrets and depression and frustration and baggage and all your issues. if you look at yourself, you yourself will not want to take yourself home. Yet you want someone to take you home. i’m scared of anyone who is impatient for marriage. Cos u are just a parasite looking for a host. Be an asset to your partner not a deficit.
In 2015, Majid held a very colourful and romantic wedding vow renewal with his beautiful wife, Virna – a move that is traceable to the actor’s new life in Christ.
You’ll love to see Stunning Photos from Majid and Virna’s Wedding Vows Renewal
The actor has also indicated that he will no longer be acting nude and sexually explicit roles in movies as he used to do in the past.